My Thoughts.

Essays and half-built ideas, worked out in public. Newest first — the older grad-school pieces are slowly being folded in.

Jul 2026

Your Brain's Best Work Happens When You Stop Working

Edison and Dalí built traps to catch themselves at the edge of sleep. Mine is going to look like a calendar block and a voice memo.

Jun 2026

You Don't Remember the Moment. You Remember the Last Time You Remembered It.

I don't take a lot of pictures. People find that strange. But a photo doesn't preserve a memory — it replaces it.

Jun 2026

What Daisie Knows

There's a kind of love that doesn't ask anything of you. Not your explanation, not your best self, not your guard.

Jun 2026

The Old Grammar — Part I: How We Got Here

Song after song about women competing for men — and the sense that something is being installed, not reflected. Where it comes from goes back a lot further than the recording studio.

Jun 2026

The Old Grammar — Part II: Two Delivery Mechanisms

Two ways a song carries the old grammar: aimed down at women, or aimed sideways between them. Plus the careers that show what building outward — or collapsing inward — looks like.

Jun 2026

The Old Grammar — Part III: Getting Better

Two Beatles songs, and the sharpest diagnostic in the whole argument: why the culture rejected one and celebrated the other — even though the celebrated one described real abuse.

Jun 2026

The Old Grammar — Part IV: The Second-Pass Ear

The misogyny is louder now, not quieter — and that might be the signal. Plus what a different way of listening actually sounds like.